On the one hand, as a sex writer, I understand that people are attracted to different things, so I wanted to keep an open mind.
That said, it's hard to be objective when someone is explaining why you don't give them an erection.
With that in mind, I asked a group of anonymous men who refuse to date fat women to try and explain their feelings to me.
I knew that there was science to support the fact that men love a woman with a tummy, but I wanted to hear from the other side.
Dating apps have a bad rap: They are often associated more closely with promoting casual hookups than actually connecting two gentle souls for an actual, head-over-heels, yes-yes-yes relationship.
There are, however, some dating apps that are good for relationships, and though they are somewhat few and far between, they're out there.
And while that's all well and good, and fun to read about, what most people really want out of a dating app is effectiveness, amirite?
Perhaps you've read about which dating app is best for relationships, or which you should try if you live in New York or San Francisco, or which are the highest-rated dating apps.Since we're talking about effectiveness, I have to include Align. Want more of Bustle's Sex and Relationships coverage?Check out our new podcast, I Want It That Way, which delves into the difficult and downright dirty parts of a relationship, and find more on our Soundcloud page.But while that's true, all of the fat women in my life have at least one story of men explaining to them that they could never date because of her fatness.It's never easy to be rejected for any reason, but fat women get used to it in their interactions with men sadly because it seems to be more socially acceptable to express disgust with fat than it is express other complaints about a person's physical appearance.